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Communicating Better
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(04-25-2024, 12:09 AM)moocow Wrote:
(04-24-2024, 11:54 PM)TDawg4 Wrote:
(04-24-2024, 10:54 PM)PandaInPants Wrote: you read this
 It is hard to take in good faith comments from people who never play or are around on disc or people who have declared dinks to be a lost cause. Seems like they are just trying to take as many shots as they can on their way out/causing problems when they don't really care about the community anymore. 

most of the people who have left/declared dinks a lost cause have those opinions because they've tried so hard to make the community a better, safer place and were met with backlash every step of the way, so they leave frustrated and feeling that way. 

you can care about a community and also understand when its time to give up, i doubt anybody who has recently made the decision to leave and rescind their positions have done so with complete happiness
Yeah I agree. I just think its hard to contribute well still when you are in that spot. That bitter taste from getting backlash from doing your best can lead to some remarks from people that I dont think they would normally make. Also on the mental health side actually stepping back is hard, but often the best thing to do.
It is not okay to literally tell people their opinions are wrong because they disagree.
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Communicating Better - by chelllman - 04-24-2024, 09:35 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by bryanbrr - 04-24-2024, 09:41 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by dong - 04-24-2024, 09:45 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by slater - 04-24-2024, 10:42 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by PandaInPants - 04-24-2024, 10:54 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by HONG - 04-24-2024, 11:02 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by thaye - 04-24-2024, 11:06 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by TDawg4 - 04-24-2024, 11:54 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by chapman - 04-25-2024, 05:21 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by bryanbrr - 04-26-2024, 09:45 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by cow - 04-25-2024, 12:08 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by moocow - 04-25-2024, 12:09 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by TDawg4 - 04-25-2024, 12:29 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by EpicGuy - 04-25-2024, 02:07 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by Dinomoto - 04-25-2024, 03:36 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by Chris Farley - 04-25-2024, 07:48 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by cow - 04-25-2024, 07:44 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by chapman - 04-25-2024, 08:19 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by chelllman - 04-25-2024, 08:13 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by PandaInPants - 04-25-2024, 06:23 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by chapman - 04-26-2024, 05:25 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by RussEfarmer - 04-25-2024, 07:31 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by slater - 04-25-2024, 08:22 PM
RE: Communicating Better - by kessler. - 04-26-2024, 11:57 AM
RE: Communicating Better - by YourMateMurph - 04-26-2024, 01:16 PM

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