[Jammin]

It also doesn’t help that you said “I didn’t mean to say it.” You knew what you said.

Circumstantially, this is what strikes me. I agree with the others that the actual word sounds somewhat ambiguous, but its close enough to cause confusion.

I'm ignoring the fact that you flamed me for issuing an awarn last time you used a slur (which, by the way, was leinent since it was NOT a ban last time). Just on the head of the evidence, it seems like you likely said the bad word, as your immediate acknowledgement was using the word. I think the ban should ride out the 3 days.
-1 unban or reduction. you know better and choose to not do better.