[DickRash]

Agreed. Warning for this at all without at the very least a verbal sets a weird precedent. Dirty jokes haven't ever really been a big deal as long as they don't cross a line.

We're not warning every time someone says suck my dick to someone directly, idk man

 
I personally think that the line was crossed when the message was directed at a person who wasn't there to consent/be in on the joke. 

Deer was there, she just didn't see my message. It was just a dumb response to something said in the moment.