[queef commando]

We can’t moderate and know at all times who is the friend of player 6,

If a staff member hears someone say something questionable to someone, and they are not familiar with the relationship between the two people, it isn't hard for the staff member to then psay the target and check in that everything is cool.

nor can we allow certain people to behave a way and it’s not ok for others.

Yeah you can. Its called context. Murdering someone, and shooting someone in self defense are at the core the same act - killing someone. But the context makes the difference.