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I think a reduction to 1 month seems fair - and if this Happens again It would be straight Permaban with No release 

1+ on reduction, But for your friends I would keep them ban as they were way more toxic / Dont do this again and learn from this mistake

How would i check how long id have to wait? i went back and it still says never on the unban date.

I'll +1 for a shorten banned/unbanning
When they decide on what will happen they say it here and close the thread. So it'll require a bit of patience.