[RussEfarmer]

For example I asked in admin chat if anyone's going to gag specific people for harassment, but someone (I don't even remember who) said they'll start watching out for it BECAUSE the victim had asked the group of people to stop after a while. Why not take the initiative to simply !psay them and ask if it's making them uncomfortable if you can't tell if it's harassment or not?

I wish I could upvote this more than once. Speaking up to a staff member if you don't like how people are talking about you/treating you is very hard.