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So I see your pronouns are they/them, are there any words that you'd prefer not being called that we can try to avoid? I notice some people saying this dude and this guy and I just want to clarify for myself what I can do to be more appropriate and respectful if there are things that bother you. You seem like good people from the interactions in ttt.

dude and guy is pretty gender neutral, i call my cat a dude