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I had no ill intent yet am damned to be called a transphobic person.

No one (to my knowledge) is calling you transphobic. Kaiwan and I have actually agreed in the past after you made an unintentionally offensive comment that you're just oblivious, not a transphobe. The issue here is that you're not the only one affected by the rules and how they're applied to individual players. Ok'ing your usage of a slur in a non-offensive context just setting the example that there's an undefined line that allows the use of that word.

Even if it is only being used in the context of cars, there is no exact number of times someone else can use it in a single discussion before it should be considered baiting. That's a variable that seems obvious enough, but you can't quantify intentions. The best way to discourage minges is to take away as many variables as you can, and the reason you've given, no matter how legitimate you think it is, only reinforces those variables. It may seem unfair to you, but it's pretty damn close to the exact opposite.