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Wow what a wonderful way for staff to treat players.... why don’t you stop harassing me and stop calling me retarded in game too...

If you want someone to show you respect, you have to show us that you can be treated the same way. When a person calls you a retard, it's possible that you did something stupid and so hence why he called you a retard. But if you prefer other terms that doesn't make you sound like a lunatic or a maniac, you could always ask them to say it nicely only if you do the same. Basically, don't be rude and expect others to be nice to you. 

If you want someone to be nice to you, at least show us that you can be nice first. This ain't no "bitch, you have to respect me first". Not everyone will be nice because that's how they are, you just have to ignore them and be the better person instead.