[lacer]

The question as to whether it SHOULD be okay is irrelevant, because toxicity has become the new normal. A good portion of the staff don't give a flying fuck about the toxic people that are stomping through the community (not to mention some of the problems ARE staff members) and when someone actually IS punished for whatever it is they do, half of the time it's not done right and there's a large amount of backlash over a small issue. The other times where something is done correctly, the staff member handling it is still met with backlash from the toxic cliques in this community.

Sound familiar?