[August]

It's always been so cringe to me to ask for people to "change". What does that even mean? You're asking people to fundamentally change their dispositions for a 15 year old video game? The demand for repentance has always been something that I think should be unnecessary during the unappealing process.

"Change" is intended to mean "Are you the same type of person you were when we had to ban you?" We're basically making sure that the person that the person they were at the time is not who they are now in front of us. Now it's not the easiest question to answer, I get that, but yes people can very much change. If you look at me for example, I am a VERY different person than I was say 5 years ago. My life, disposition, way of thinking, etc have all changed. As you go through life, you will change. Anyone who has grown up from a toddler to an adult has changed. You don't still say "goo goo ga ga" and poop in your pants, right? That means you have, at one point, changed. As long as the person who is ASKING us to be unbanned has shown growth, has shown they can change and that we can trust them that they won't do what they did again, then that shows us they have indeed changed. You may think it's silly, but do we want one of our members to be called a pedophile and have rumors thrown around them for no good reason? No we don't, so continue to expect this question.