[tiefling lesbian]

+rep this post if you like puppies and kittens
-rep if you hate puppies and kittens

Hi Tiefling.


In all seriousness, this is not the post to shitpost on. 

your one comment has done what many other comments here could not do.

in one comment, you have debased the value of the conversation here, and directly or indirectly messaged to the TTT community that you (and by extension possibly the TTT upper staff team) must not care about the goings ons in the TTT community. 

as a mod or Admin (especially as the latter), it is super important to be a person that others can look up to.

this post is not exemplary behavior. Do better, because you can be better, at least I would hope.

A situation that had already mostly deescalated didn't need to be turned into an even more public spectacle by someone that was not the focus of either side of the argument. This thread doesn't do anything to solve either side's grievances, it only serves to stoke the flames more. I hope Hoy is able to come back to the server, and if further resolution is required for that to happen, that's between him and whichever staff he feels it's required from. Did anyone ask him if he wanted this to be made into a bigger public display before this was posted?

The staff involved could have done a better job of deescalating the situation sooner, but staff are also people and are allowed to have opinions and get frustrated. I don't think anything said by staff constitutes bullying or harassment as far as I've seen, just frustration with a way women are often treated. I also don't think anyone is accusing Hoy of intentionally going out of his way to infantilize Coco, but the grander point is that just because someone doesn't intend something a certain way doesn't mean it doesn't still come across that way, and that it's ok to simply accept criticism and move on.

And I can't help but notice that you hate puppies and kittens. +0