[matt_st3 (Strongrule)]

Not really sure what to say. I did not think it was so common of an issue. I do jump on at night and don't typically see a lot of staff, so if it's staff that would explain why. I simply do not allow the use of the word and any other harrasment I recognize, and the staff I usually see at night do the same. I do see jokes go under the radar sometimes but even then if it goes to far the player is told to stop or gagged.
Of course I appear to be wrong with the amount of staff, including a large portion of PH staff, liking the messages. I know many people commonly use said slurs on the discord, but it should not be used on the server, or especially towards players and other staff. This is not a grey area, it should be clear to recognize and deal with. Unless a higher up decided to repeal the rule, whichever staff told you it's a grey area is flat wrong, as shown in the rules you quoted.