[Generally_Suspicious]

You came into our channel where we were playing a game, you requested to join and we let you. you then starting complaining and whining that we weren't playing the game that YOU wanted to. That is completely unacceptable and you had no right to do that.

On top of this, if you are offended by "fuck off and die", you probably shouldn't be on the internet because that is likely one of the least offensive things someone could say to you. And as more than one person told you, we tell people "keep yourself safe" on the regular and no we don't actually mean "Hey, you should kill yourself!". It's exactly the same as us calling people names and such. If you don't like it, don't join the server and certainly don't try to start shit with people on it.

Goodbye.

Yeah that's sort of how we are on this server. We don't (usually/always) mean it in offense or as an attack. We just dick around a lot.
We insult to endear, for lack of better terms.
Some of us are dicks, but we're ALL friendly especially to new comers. 
Just got to be able to take a joke and make a joke.