Once and Once Only

**[red]Ashe | Sin Side** · 01-12-2022, 09:54 AM

I'm disappointed.

Lemme put this out there,
once and once only-

Do not fucking deadname
ANYONE

Friend, enemy, dead person
Especially after they trusted you
with the knowledge and trusted you
to not say it

Do. Better.

~~Battons~~ · 01-12-2022, 10:36 AM

While I wholeheartedly agree with you, if there is harassment going on please let me know in dms and we can take it further.

**don't be heavy** · 01-12-2022, 10:38 AM

Wouldn't it be better to dm the person instead of making a forum post?

**matt_st3 (Strongrule)** · 01-12-2022, 11:08 AM

If it cannot be handled privately then bring it to a relevant admin to help enforce no contact

**Sailboat495** · 01-12-2022, 11:35 AM

this isn't twitter

**BlackRose1042** · 01-12-2022, 04:46 PM

(01-12-2022, 09:54 AM)[red]Ashe | Sin Side Wrote: I'm disappointed.

Lemme put this out there,
once and once only-

Do not fucking deadname
ANYONE

Friend, enemy, dead person
Especially after they trusted you
with the knowledge and trusted you
to not say it

Do. Better.

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Deadnaming is so incredibly disrespectful and shouldn't be tolerated. I hope the issue is resolved and won't happen again <3

**BillyBob** · 01-12-2022, 09:41 PM

what dah fuck is deadnaming

subtweeting on the dinks forums moment

01-12-2022, 09:52 PM

(01-12-2022, 09:41 PM)Kapitan BillyBob Wrote: what dah fuck is deadnaming

subtweeting on the dinks forums moment

I googled it earlier because I also didn't know; it's calling a transgender by their original name rather than what they prefer

01-12-2022, 10:42 PM

(01-12-2022, 09:52 PM)David Wrote:
(01-12-2022, 09:41 PM)Kapitan BillyBob Wrote: what dah fuck is deadnaming

subtweeting on the dinks forums moment

I googled it earlier because I also didn't know; it's calling a transgender by their original name rather than what they prefer

I have no clue as to why that is referred to as deadnaming but alright. I can see how that can be disrespectful though in a way.

**[red]Ashe | Sin Side** · 01-12-2022, 11:28 PM

(01-12-2022, 10:42 PM)JesseTheUndeadCowboy Wrote:
(01-12-2022, 09:52 PM)David Wrote:
(01-12-2022, 09:41 PM)Kapitan BillyBob Wrote: what dah fuck is deadnaming

subtweeting on the dinks forums moment

I googled it earlier because I also didn't know; it's calling a transgender by their original name rather than what they prefer
I have no clue as to why that is referred to as deadnaming but alright. I can see how that can be disrespectful though in a way.

A lot of gender confused people have emotional trauma tied to their birth name. It can be very damaging and disrespectful. Even more disrespectful when no apology is given