[RussEfarmer]

is it just okay for me to buy my way into mod status and handle it however i feel? cuz i'll pay the $15 to run your server if that's the case.

While you didn't follow the format and have no evidence of what you're actually talking about, I can share your frustration in this area. Having non-staff ranks like donators fill staff roles on a server should never be done in my opinion.