11-02-2022, 04:24 PM
Clarifying that this is in response to Dan's comment: Someone telling you to "go download tinder and get a cock down ur throat already" is just sexual harassment. It's not even funny. That's a comment worthy of a strike imo. That shouldn't be something that is overlooked just because it can be seen as being an off-hand comment or "gamer talk" or some other silly excuse for it. That's just not ok to say. In general and I've said it before, we need to do a better job at handling harassment and recognizing what is harassment.
From the looks of the added context, I do think there was instigating on your end as well and that strike was warranted too imo. Foxka was right to strike you for that. Both things can be true. But that doesn't discount that instance of harassment either. But that was striken after the fact but it *SHOULD HAVE* been striken at the time rather than just the immediate response after that, which was the gif (that I removed from this initial post since that’s not the point here and just something that can be done better later/foxka could be talked to about that). I think that response comes off the wrong way. Dan’s comment could’ve been handled better at the time though
From the looks of the added context, I do think there was instigating on your end as well and that strike was warranted too imo. Foxka was right to strike you for that. Both things can be true. But that doesn't discount that instance of harassment either. But that was striken after the fact but it *SHOULD HAVE* been striken at the time rather than just the immediate response after that, which was the gif (that I removed from this initial post since that’s not the point here and just something that can be done better later/foxka could be talked to about that). I think that response comes off the wrong way. Dan’s comment could’ve been handled better at the time though
